Bipolar is a lifelong and a life changing illness.  There is no cure for but it can be managed.

 

When you are diagnosed, you finally  find out why you feel and do things you realize are not usual.  It explains why you do what you do.  A lot of people when told reject it and refuse to get treatment.  With the right psychiatrist , therapist and the right medication  you can control the mood swings.  It may take years to find just the right medication but if you make a decision to control your bipolar, it is worth it.  Be patient and work with your doctor eventually you will be stable.

 

Except that you have this illness, make a confident decision that you will do anything to control it and take your medication regularly. You can be stable.

Bipolar disorder needs maintenance treatment even during times of remission. Medications are vital to the treatment of this illness. Your health care professional will work with you to find a regimen that works for you. This means dealing with side effects of the medications.

Mood stabilizers help regulate and stabilize bipolar mood swings. Lithium, as a mood stabilizer, is a preferred medication as a first line treatment for manic episodes. Mood stabilizers likely need to be taken for the rest of your life. You will become able to accept mild side effects or they may disappear completely as your body adjusts to the medication. Confusion, inability to remember, fainting, irregularities in heartbeat, frequent urination, increased thirst, stiffness in arms and legs, difficulty breathing, unusual tiredness or weakness, or weight gain are all effects requiring doctor notification so he can decide whether to adjust the dose or change your medication.

Anti-seizure medications have advantages for people with rapid cycling bipolar disorder. These medications also have side effects that you will have to accept or overcome. Blurry vision or changes in vision, clumsiness or unsteadiness, double vision, poor coordination, skin rash, anxiety, chest pain, confusion, depression, increase in seizures, infection, and irritability should all be reported to your doctor for his consideration and recommendations.

Antidepressants, although once commonly used, are now controversial. They may not be used in your treatment, depending on your situation. Certain antipsychotic medications have taken their place, such as Zyprexa and Risperdal. These medications may help people who don’t benefit from anti-seizure medications. Seroquel has been approved to treat both the manic and depressive episodes.

Numerous medications are available to treat bipolar disorder. If one is causing you problems, your doctor may prescribe another or combine more than one kind of medication. It often takes several weeks after starting a medication to notice improvement. Talk with your doctor about monitoring you for increased risk of diabetes, obesity, and high blood pressure.

When you are the spouse of a bipolar person, you automatically become the caretaker and caregiver of the whole relationship. Because the sufferer of bipolar has mood swings, the spouse is expected to hold everything together. So the first thing that you can do as a supporter of someone with bipolar is to make sure that you are okay.

People are going to expect you to stay strong. In order to do that you have to make sure that you have time to dedicate to yourself. Whether you are into yoga or reading, it is important that you maintain a healthy relationship with yourself so that you can provide the proper support to your spouse.

You can also attend spousal support groups for bipolar sufferers. Not only can you attend those, but you can attend your own therapy sessions. Go with your spouse to their therapy sessions so you can hear what they have to say and even enter your point of view. You can be interactive in their care which will help both of you when there isn’t a third party to monitor you. Remember that you are a guest in your partner’s session and it isn’t about you and that you are there to support them.

Because bipolar can take away the part of your spouse that you loved the most, it’s important to let yourself remember the good times you had so that you aren’t only remembering the bad times. Reminiscing about the happy times, before the bipolar, may give both you and your spouse hope about what will come with the proper treatment and medication.

Sufferers of bipolar disorder tend to have feelings of sadness, guilt, anger, anxiety, isolation, helplessness, loneliness, self loathing, and unfortunately, even suicide. Most of the time we can’t control how we feel, so imagine how it would feel if you had severe mood swings and didn’t understand why you had them and why you couldn’t control them. Not being able to control your emotions can lead anyone to self hate, but when you suffer from bipolar, the severity of your emotions can cause your self hate to be deeper. Once you feel like you can’t control your emotions and you feel like it’s your fault, the self hate can lead to self injury or drug abuse.

When sufferers of bipolar are at their lowest point, they can resort to abusing drugs or alcohol. Because feeling high can make the sufferers think they are feeling better, the sufferers can start to self medicate. They can abuse street drugs or even prescription drugs. They can even abuse alcohol. Sufferers may feel so out of control that they hate themselves for not being able to control either their emotions or their addictions. Sufferers of bipolar may also feel self hate because of the pain loved ones feel when they have to help with or live with them. Feeling helpless when your loved one has bipolar can also make the sufferer of bipolar feel like they are causing pain to not only themselves, but to their family as well. In all instances, personal therapy and family therapy is probably going to be recommended.

When you suffer from bipolar, your moods go up and down. You can feel happy in one moment and sad the next. When you have bipolar, it is not uncommon to have feelings of sadness, guilt, anger, anxiety, isolation, helplessness, loneliness, self loathing, and unfortunately, even feel suicidal. You can also have disturbances in patterns of sleep, appetite and energy levels. When you can’t control how you feel, sometimes the only thing you can control is the amount of pain you feel. By hurting yourself, you are able to show the extent of the thoughts you are feeling. When someone feels that the world would be better off without them, they tend to be reckless with their bodies, succumbing to self-injury tactics, including cutting.

But self destruction doesn’t have to be only physical. In order to try and even out ones feelings, sufferers of bipolar disorder can resort to drug use. Because feeling high can make one think that they are better, sufferers of bipolar can start to self medicate. It may be with street drugs or with prescription drugs, but when you can’t control your own feelings, feeling high can be better than feeling low. It may not be drugs and it could be alcohol. Sufferers can drink their feelings away. When their feelings are extremely high or extremely low, it can lead to a lot of drinking. Sometimes alcoholism or drug abuse can help a sufferer feel like they have something they have something to work on besides having to deal with their varying moods. That doesn’t mean they become drug abusers or alcoholics just because they need something to fix, but when self-medicating turns into abuse, getting help means that you focus on something other than your uncontrollable emotions.